It is insignificant, but I rarely wear stockings because they're so difficult to put on. The effort, sweat, and struggle to get these fishnets on is exhausting! I have to take breaks to avoid tearing them with my nails and stretching them pass the widest part of my thigh, which can cause them to rip at the crotch. I'm a woman with thick thighs. The phrase "thick thighs save lives"…
To all of the Beyonce fans, who is familiar with her song “Standing on the Sun”? The remix has a feature from Mr Vegas. The song is a gem that many people aren’t familiar with. (Feelin’ everythin’) We’re standing on the sun (Feelin’ everythin’) We’re standing on the sun (Feelin’ everythin’) We’re standing on the sun May 31, 2013 Beyonce performed this song during a concert in Antwerp, Belgium as…
This is my first travel blog post! This trip was a belated birthday celebration with my sister and friend and we had a blast! We went for Usher's residency in Las Vegas in April 2023 however this blog post is about identifying my travel style and not so much a review. Not only am I a recovering people pleaser I am a maximizer! Types of decision makers: maximizer vs satisfier…
Please know that I am not ashamed to admit that I like to do the obvious and wear florals in the spring. However, I have SOME range, and I have worn strips to welcome spring as well. We are more than aware of the difficulty of dressing for the transition between winter and spring. I am trying mesh for spring! Nude I bought these boots so I could wear them…
It is my birthday and I like to use this time to reflect like I have here, here and here. I am not the same woman, and I made the announcement here, but it has not been a graceful or easy transition. I can not continue at the same intensity and resolve as before. Sorry, not sorry! Work, Work, Work, Work, Work! I never work for my sole benefit and…
This is my first blog post of 2023, and I am starting it with a cliche! I thought that I had a breakthrough in this blog post instead, I only identified the problem. In 2022, it was not as simple as asking someone to pass the cream and sugar in the office while I make my coffee instead of waiting until they finished. It is more than asking questions; it…
Did I get your attention with this blog post title? I adore color and texture and don't gravitate to muted colors much less a 'nude'. The quotations are shady way of acknowledging that term can be unpacked. As a dark skin woman I am conflicted-do I continue to talk about colorism or instead, just exist and my existence, challenge the status quo? (more…)
It's not quite summer yet but I can't wait to taste it! I have so many plans. I want to enjoy a soft summer with friends, family and food because I am too old and tired for a hot girl summer. Watermelon sugar high Watermelon sugar high Watermelon sugar high Watermelon sugar high Watermelon sugar! Harry Styles Kelly's tweet below is goals! Ladies, let's make a pact to have a soft…
We live and learn, even when you didn't know that you needed a lesson. In my last blog post here as basic as it sounds, I realized that I have a issue with asking for help. When I came to this realization and also started examining further; I still need to learn more about setting and maintaining boundaries. I graduated from university a long time a go and didn't willingly…
I feel like a newish woman-partly because my birthday is soon approaching (March 17) . I've experienced so much growth and development; personally and career wise. I feel like people are starting to hear me but admittedly, I'm not asking enough questions. I am still struggling to ask questions-the hard questions. I am an introvert who moonlights as an extrovert. As long as a conversation doesn't center on personal issues…
Pollen is in the air so spring is here! I'm not much of a gardener so instead I am growing my bag collection. I don't want flowers. I want a handbag. I am using my Gucci vanity as a purse. Vanity Bag Trend Yes, we normally use vanity cases for storing our cosmetics and beauty essentials but she can do more than that! The vanity shape is so unique but yet…
I don't know who made the decision but all the major fashion publications are declaring that skinny jeans are out! Maybe I am too sensitive but as a plus size woman, I rolled my eyes when I heard the "news". Regardless if you are plus size or not, finding jeans that fit is stressful already. On the flip, this new jean trend can be an opportunity for me to open…
It's St. Patrick's Day and my birthday y'all so why not blog! I bought this dress for no other reason than it being delicious so I am indulging. Typically, we associate St Patrick Day's with green but I am making it all about sequins and feathers. I will not go into the history or meaning of the day however, if you are looking for some green outfit inspiration check out…
Let me begin this blog post with an idiom. March weather is 'in like a lion, out like a lamb'. To be clear, I am referring to how the weather in the beginning of the month is cold and blistering and it improves greatly by the end of the month. Let's be lions and slay with a March winter look. There are so many women killing fashion forward ski outfits. Some women like…
Spring isn't here yet and it feels like it will take a while for the weather to warm up in Toronto. The current weather is only a distraction- pastels are in and lavender is my pastel of choice. Despite being in lock down again to help combat Covid, fashion and dressing up helps me to cope with the pandemic even though I'm not going out for anything more than the…
The thought of 2020 is overwhelming, however, before we move on, let me sneak in a blog post. I want to be luxe and lax, while ringing in the new year or celebrating that 2020 is over. Depending on your perspective, the glass is either half empty or half full. 2020 is bittersweet and I talk more about it here . Sequins It is not as difficult as I thought…
If you didn't know already, I adore color; more specifically I really enjoy all hues and shades of purple and I really like bubblegum pink. Thankfully 2020 will be over soon but what fashion trends will be popular in 2021? Who What Wear 's article 10 Trends We're Tired of and 10 We'll Be Wearing in 2021 Instead got me thinking and styling. "I love a pop of color now…
The way this year is going, many people probably wish that they could be gone until November. This year, and given how unpredictable it is, we may have more surprises in store for us in December. This the fastest as well as longest year ever. Here I discuss how 2019 was for me. 2020 timeline In January, I quit my job In February, I started a new job. March is…
Florals are not new to my blog as you can see here and here. I have a fascination with the 70's and the back story of my blog is a spin on the club Studio 54 . I admire Grace Jones and Diana Ross and they are major style inspirations. 70’s Boho-Chic I tend to like sexy second skin silhouettes mixed with classic and contemporary pieces. I adore bright colours,…
I'm embracing my femininity and really enjoying wearing florals this summer. I am wearing another bright floral print here. This dress is a bit atypical because it has a blue base. I more often see floral dresses that are on a white, black or on a warm toned base. Florals that follow this type of color scheme tend to read as more delicate but the intensity of this dress drew…
My name is Patrice Rhone and I am a marketing professional, fashion fanatic and 80’s baby from Toronto with Jamaican roots. The blog is a series of fashion centric personal essays. I reflect on issues that affect plus size women, black women and women of colour.
